5. Seek first to understand,
and then to be understood
Because most of the people
don’t listen very well, one of the great frustration in life is that many don’t
fell understood. This habit ill ensure your teens learns the most important
communication skill there is: active listing.
Why is this habit the key to
communication? It’s because the deepest need of the human heart is to be
understood. Everyone wants to be respected and valued for who they are-a
unique, one-of-a-kind, never-to-be-cloned individual. People won’t expose their
soft middles unless they feel it, however, they will tell you more than you may
want to hear. People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you
care.
Listen with your eyes,
heart, and ears. 7 percent of communication is contained in the words we use.
The rest comes from body language (53 percent) and how we say words, or the
tone and feeling reflected in our voice (40 percent).
Most people are eager to talk
and had rather talk than listen. We have one mouth and two ears. This means we
should listen twice as much as well we talk. We actually learn more while
listening rather than we talk. Learn to listen to learn.
Listen, really listen for
understanding. Seek first to understand then to be understood-listen.
Choose The Right!!!
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